Finding love is one the sweetest thing that can happen to anyone on earth. Love is such a beautiful experience that shouldn’t be missed. However, things may not go well in the long run as expected especially if one of the partner is abusive and not maintaining their own deal of the relationship. If you are into any form of abusive relationship- verbal, emotional or physical abuse- and need to get out of that bad relationship, then this article is a guide for you to follow.
Find the courage to quit
Many people find it hard to quit that relationship that is giving them headache and that is because they have not gotten the strength to cut it off. If there is no strength, you cannot do anything and that is why you need that courage to get yourself out. There are some possible reasons why some persons do not find the strength to quit that bad relationship;
· The fear of being alone afterwards
· They lack the spark of motivation
· Fear of not being able to get into a new relationship afterwards
· They have a low self esteem
· They lack role models who can advice them and encourage them to do the needful
If you can overcome those reasons, believe me, you won’t have to find it difficult in leaving a bad relationship.
Even in an ugly relationship, some people will still give excuses as to why their partner is acting that way. At first, your partner will be easy going, loving and caring but you may not really know their real picture until you have got yourself into that relationship. If all of a sudden, your partner starts acting bad, don’t give excuse as to why they are acting that way. Giving excuse will make them continue even the more and it will also make you blind to see the fact that you are in a bad relationship and need to leave.
Avoid been defensive
Have you ever noticed something in some people’s life? Whenever they do something that gets them stuck in a difficult situation, they find it hard to come out because they want to always defend their mistakes. This is very wrong. Everyone makes mistakes and it becomes foolish to defend your mistakes even when you know it’s eating you up. If you really want to leave that bad relationship, you need to tell yourself the truth.
I have observed that one thing which makes people keep defending their wrong deeds is pride. They wouldn’t want to be shamed for their wrong acts. Let go off the pride and see yourself acknowledging the fact that you’ve gone into a bad relationship and need to come out of it as quick as possible.
You also need to avoid defending your partner’s evil acts towards you.
Change your thoughts
Some persons think that once they leave that bad relationship, they would find it hard to get into another one. If you have such thoughts, you need to erase it off from your heart. To some people, when things are going well in relationship, they show it out for the world to see but when things turn the other way round, they just overlook it and in that way suppressing themselves. If you want to successfully come out of a bad relationship, you need to know that there are better opportunities out there for you and you can always get into a relationship that is even better than the former.
Leaving a bad relationship means that you are nearer to getting into a good relationship. Remember, if you remain in that bad relationship, you may never get into a good one.
Would you want to stay in that bad relationship or leave it now for a better one? That question is left for you to answer via the comment box.
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